Sometimes when we are scared, feel totally alone, or we have lost our way through a series of events, we each just wish: “……would someone just please tell me what I should do next/now…….?” We’ve all been in rough spots like this before.
One school of thinking is to just ask, ask, ask, ask, ask, and keep on asking anyone with ears. The result is a confused person who cannot make any decision.
What’s another thing you could do?
You could look at what you are facing and ask yourself: “Who do I know who has been through this or made this decision before?” Then you could invite them to sit down with you over a meal or coffee and ask for their advice or what drove their decision.
What else could you do?
Sometimes, the situation and the decision require a “professionals” help. Then you need to seek a referral to someone who is competent and knowledgeable in the field who get results at a price you can afford to pay or go to a free business who provides these services to the public.
What else could you do? We are on a roll now……
When we stop and think about all the possibilities instead of default reaction and default mentality we open up a new slew of available options. This is not the same as asking anyone with ears. There is a distinction.
What do you need to ask right now?